Comments for Anita Fiander | Become an Empowered Woman | Personal Power for Women |Authentic Leadership | Feminine Leadership |How to Become a Leader | How to Overcome Adversity | | Women's Self Esteem |Fulfill Your Purpose | Follow your Passion http://anitafiander.com Women’s Empowerment Specialist | Women’s Leadership Expert | Women’s Empowerment Coaching | Speaker and Coach Thu, 17 May 2012 17:46:08 +0000 hourly 1 http://wordpress.org/?v=3.3.2 Comment on The Art of Decision Making: Tips on Making Decisions You Can Live With by Dale Anne Potter http://anitafiander.com/the-art-of-decision-making-tips-on-making-decisions-you-can-live-with/#comment-841 Dale Anne Potter Thu, 17 May 2012 17:46:08 +0000 http://anitafiander.com/?p=932#comment-841 A VERY GOOD post Anita. AWESOME tips for anyone trying to make the right decision - THANK YOU!!! A VERY GOOD post Anita. AWESOME tips for anyone trying to make the right decision – THANK YOU!!!

]]> Comment on 9 Ways to Pick Yourself Up After Failing by Helena http://anitafiander.com/9-ways-to-pick-yourself-up-after-failing/#comment-840 Helena Thu, 17 May 2012 17:35:02 +0000 http://anitafiander.com/?p=919#comment-840 Great tips Anita! Especially that last one about imagining the worst case scenario. When you stop to think about what's the worst that can happen, you usually find that what has happened isn't quite so bad at all. Thanks for another great article. Great tips Anita! Especially that last one about imagining the worst case scenario. When you stop to think about what’s the worst that can happen, you usually find that what has happened isn’t quite so bad at all. Thanks for another great article.

]]> Comment on How to Free Yourself from Guilt by Mandy Edwards http://anitafiander.com/how-to-free-yourself-from-guilt/#comment-839 Mandy Edwards Thu, 17 May 2012 17:30:30 +0000 http://anitafiander.com/?p=927#comment-839 This is a great post Anita! I had a situation in high school where I broke someone's confidence about a subject and he stopped talking to me for the rest of our senior year. Through social media about 8 years later, I was able to connect with him and apologize - I had felt that guilt that whole time. Amazingly he had actually forgotten about it and forgave me. What a relief! This is a great post Anita! I had a situation in high school where I broke someone’s confidence about a subject and he stopped talking to me for the rest of our senior year. Through social media about 8 years later, I was able to connect with him and apologize – I had felt that guilt that whole time. Amazingly he had actually forgotten about it and forgave me. What a relief!

]]> Comment on The Art of Decision Making: Tips on Making Decisions You Can Live With by Anastasia http://anitafiander.com/the-art-of-decision-making-tips-on-making-decisions-you-can-live-with/#comment-838 Anastasia Thu, 17 May 2012 15:42:05 +0000 http://anitafiander.com/?p=932#comment-838 Thank you for the insightful article, I have a lot to learn from it. Thank you for the insightful article, I have a lot to learn from it.

]]> Comment on The Art of Decision Making: Tips on Making Decisions You Can Live With by Randy http://anitafiander.com/the-art-of-decision-making-tips-on-making-decisions-you-can-live-with/#comment-837 Randy Thu, 17 May 2012 15:31:03 +0000 http://anitafiander.com/?p=932#comment-837 and spelling...read and spelling…read

]]> Comment on How to Overcome Stagnation by Jennifer http://anitafiander.com/how-to-overcome-stagnation/#comment-836 Jennifer Thu, 17 May 2012 15:30:26 +0000 http://anitafiander.com/?p=847#comment-836 Great plan Anita, you've hit on some of the things that make goal setting harder than it sounds, and given some very practical solutions. I agree with you, taking immediate yet small steps on a consistent basis is the key to reaching a goal. Great plan Anita, you’ve hit on some of the things that make goal setting harder than it sounds, and given some very practical solutions. I agree with you, taking immediate yet small steps on a consistent basis is the key to reaching a goal.

]]> Comment on The Art of Decision Making: Tips on Making Decisions You Can Live With by Randy http://anitafiander.com/the-art-of-decision-making-tips-on-making-decisions-you-can-live-with/#comment-835 Randy Thu, 17 May 2012 15:30:08 +0000 http://anitafiander.com/?p=932#comment-835 good red Anita, deadlines, must set deadlines! good red Anita, deadlines, must set deadlines!

]]> Comment on The Art of Decision Making: Tips on Making Decisions You Can Live With by Dorien Morin-van Dam http://anitafiander.com/the-art-of-decision-making-tips-on-making-decisions-you-can-live-with/#comment-834 Dorien Morin-van Dam Thu, 17 May 2012 15:24:15 +0000 http://anitafiander.com/?p=932#comment-834 There's one thing in life that certain for me: I can made decisions! What does that make me? Carzy, half of the time! I decided on a Monday to get married on Friday (and I was 19 years old) - Happily Married for 23 years now. I decided to buy a house with my husband, w/o seeing it first. I decided to start a business with a high school GED in my pocket. Sometimes 'just doing' is right. But what comes after is really important too! If you make decisions, but than later are sorry and change your mind, that's not so good! Sticking by what you decide is equally important! And yes: "Most decisions only determine your short-term circumstances in the relative present. In most cases your decision can be altered in the future when circumstances are different or you’re in a different stage of your life." knowing this helps, too! Great article Anita! There’s one thing in life that certain for me: I can made decisions! What does that make me?
Carzy, half of the time!

I decided on a Monday to get married on Friday (and I was 19 years old) – Happily Married for 23 years now.
I decided to buy a house with my husband, w/o seeing it first.
I decided to start a business with a high school GED in my pocket.

Sometimes ‘just doing’ is right. But what comes after is really important too! If you make decisions, but than later are sorry and change your mind, that’s not so good! Sticking by what you decide is equally important!

And yes: “Most decisions only determine your short-term circumstances in the relative present. In most cases your decision can be altered in the future when circumstances are different or you’re in a different stage of your life.” knowing this helps, too!

Great article Anita!

]]> Comment on How to Free Yourself from Guilt by denny hagel http://anitafiander.com/how-to-free-yourself-from-guilt/#comment-833 denny hagel Thu, 17 May 2012 13:05:23 +0000 http://anitafiander.com/?p=927#comment-833 Absolutely love this article and the insights you share! Guilt is a trigger to pay attention and choose differently...a place to visit NOT a place to live! great job! Absolutely love this article and the insights you share! Guilt is a trigger to pay attention and choose differently…a place to visit NOT a place to live! great job!

]]> Comment on How to Free Yourself from Guilt by Carol Giambri http://anitafiander.com/how-to-free-yourself-from-guilt/#comment-832 Carol Giambri Thu, 17 May 2012 06:36:15 +0000 http://anitafiander.com/?p=927#comment-832 Wow, Anita. Super points to consider and solutions too. Choose to live guilty or live with freedom. Sometimes we can't control what happened to us but we can take care of the choices we live with. I could have lived guilty, but I alive and looking to make a brighter future by living guilt free and doing my best. Maybe it's called "accepting myself where I am today" but not where I want to be tomorrow. Wow, Anita. Super points to consider and solutions too. Choose to live guilty or live with freedom. Sometimes we can’t control what happened to us but we can take care of the choices we live with. I could have lived guilty, but I alive and looking to make a brighter future by living guilt free and doing my best. Maybe it’s called “accepting myself where I am today” but not where I want to be tomorrow.

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